Zambia-Final Update (Until next time)
Purpose of Trip (Reminder)-The purpose of this trip was to design and build a 16 element low-ropes course and camp ground, train the missionaries and nationals how to run and facilitate the course, and run camps. By using the experiential learning opportunities of a camp-style of ministry, participants were able to learn about the Bible, working as a team, and problem solving while interacting as part of a team and with the counselors during the activities.
What we did (review): For the first month of the trip, I was joined by my brother , Caleb. We were also joined by three other short-term missionaries. During the first two months, I/we spent our time between Choma (a small town) and Nambaaza (the bush). In Choma, God allowed us to do a lot of maintenance at the church, host day camps for children and teens, host a women’s conference, run a volleyball camp, take turns preaching and teaching in the church, and work with the members of Salvation Baptist Church. In the bush, God allowed us to build a 16 element low-ropes course, train the nationals how to run and facilitate camps, run many camps (for kids, teens, and adults), teach in the village school, work with the medical ministries, host a men’s conference, and hosta soccer tournament.
God then gave me the opportunity to change locations/missionaries and stay another 3 months. There God allowed me to work with the Bible Institute, prepare for the possibility of a future camp, write a camp manual and programing guide, work on the building of two church buildings and missionary housing (gathering rock and sand, digging the foundation by hand, digging a well, and making 18,000+ brick), preach/teach within the churches, run leadership and team building camps, work with two soccer teams, and help start a youth group and train the nationals in working with youth.
Much more was done over the 5 months. Check out the blog for more details.
God was faithful (just a few of the many ways…remember to check the blog for much more):
· We were able to leave at 100% support, even though we didn’t organize this trip until later on
· We knew we could leave and our mom and sister would be well taken care of by the Body.
· We were well protected: from the animals, from potentially dangerous situations, and ourselves. Whenever we were in the bush, we’d have families come stay by us for added protection.
· Many kids, teens, and adults would flock to us and the activities we held. Many were able to hear about Christ for the very first time.
· Many tools, equipment, and funds were given/raised for the building projects and we were always able to keep going.
· Many men volunteered days and weeks to help us (out in the bush and in Chipata)
· At one point I was illegally in the country (although we were told all the papers were filed properly). Most people would have been kicked out, but I was given a permit to stay within a few minutes.
Things I learned: I’m truly grateful for being able to spend time under two different missionary couples (the Chambers and the Bandas), getting to work in 4 unique settings (in the bush, a small village, a small town, and a soon to be city), and getting to share my savior with people who have never heard his name. I’m thankful for getting to work with missionaries who have a true desire to be on the field (some it seems, have no desire to be there). But being there for five months, I got to see the good, the bad, and the ugly about mission work and living in a third world. And for that, I’m thankful as well. Most of the time, when you hear a missionary speak, they present a glamorized version of missions. They’re afraid if they present missions for what it truly is, people won’t want to follow into missions or they won’t be willing to support them.
I’m not here to do that. At times, being on the mission field is hard: working with other missions/missionaries, missing out on the comforts of home, loneliness, struggling with corrupt governments, and working in a fallen world. These are just a few of the things I’ve learned that I’ve seen within the global church body (whether it be stateside, in Mexico, Haiti, or Zambia). My prayer is that having a better grasp of some on the bad will better allow the Body to pray and support their missionaries, pastors, or ministry leaders all around the world. Obviously, I saw much good being done in the name of Christ. This isn’t to say that there are no Christians or missionaries who are going above and beyond their call to serve their Savior, but that these are areas (as a whole) that the global church is lacking.
1. $1 a day is not enough to support a family on.
When I got back, I saw a blog where Christians were arguing about how $1 a day is more than enough to support a family with in the third world. Even though we ‘need’ 20k, 40k, or 100k it’s okay because they (the third-world members) only ‘need’ $365 days a year. We think their needs are basic food (Shima and cabbage with an occasional serving of beans for protein), a jug for water, an outfit, and a blanket. At times, it’s as if we don’t view them as human. Maybe it’s because we justify it to ourselves so we don’t have to feel bad. While we want to better our lives and our families lives, we think they are happy just to survive for another day. But they want to better their lives and the lives of the family just like we do. $1 a day is not enough. It provides a basic meal. It doesn’t provide milk for babies, meat, vegetables, heat (for when it drops well below freezing), beds, running water, electricity, clothes, soap, medical care, rent/housing, or school bills and books. A dollar a day keeps a family from starving to death, but not much more.
2. People die because of a lack of medical care…more people need to go.
Working with the medical mission, I had a patient of mine named Junior. Junior was a four year old who had 2nd degree burns on 70+ percent of his body (face, neck, chest, back, stomach, and upper arms). He had a pot of boiling water fall on him the night before. A bush remedy is to soak a burn victim in diesel fuel and then cover him or her in egg yolk. We saw him the next day were we had to work on him outside in the cold winter weather. After spend much time keeping him from going into shock and treating his burns, we had to leave a few days later. After 10 days of fighting for his life, Junior died. He died because there was no one to care for him and no way for him to get the medical help he needed. I’m convinced his life could have/would have been saved had he had someone been there to provide medical care.
3. Don’t say things these things to missionaries. While meant for good, they’re very discouraging:
I’m glad you’re going because I could never go myself.
It’s cool that you do that, but I enjoy it too much here to leave this behind.
I’m just trying to get to heaven, once I got that, I live how I want…God wants ME to be happy, someone else can go.
4. Nationals (just like people stateside) are terribly confused when it comes to knowing who to believe in regards to faith.
As a whole, I felt like missionaries on the field (just like some here) spent more time teaching people how other missionaries and denominations are wrong in minuet theology rather than preaching the love of Christ. I heard Zambian nationals arguing about how American hymns are the only way one can worship God (I’m sorry, but God was around before American hymns were written). I heard nationals (just like people here) explain how you have to be Baptist. There was an adage on the mission field that said ‘Your biggest enemy is your fellow missionary and your fellow Christian.’ There is another saying, ‘When the elephants fight, the grass is destroyed.’ When the missionaries and Christians fight, they destroy the nationals. It’s to the point where nationals are going to the Zambian government asking that missionaries be kicked out of Zambia (even though Zambia is considered a Christian nation). There’s so much hate, bitterness, and fighting between fellow missionaries, between denominations, between mission agencies, and between fellow brothers and sisters in Christ that Christ’s love is not being displayed, even though the love of Christ is being preached. How can you teach Christ’s love to others if you can’t love those who are also teaching Christ’s love?
5. Forgiving is not waiting for the person to ask for forgiveness before you move on.
During my time in Zambia, I worked and interacted with many different missionaries and worked for two mission boards that had some tough times in the past. Being in the middle, I heard all the stories and all the ways the other side had hurt the opposing side. Each side would tell me they were ready to move on, forgive, and reconcile relationships. However, both sides would say they had been hurt and were waiting for the other side to apologize because they were the ones in the wrong. Forgiving is not waiting for the one side to ask for forgiveness before you’re willing to move on.
6. Pray each other is more like Christ.
One day I saw a prayer card on how some of the missionaries had been praying for me. They were praying that I would be more grounded biblically. While I agree that everyone can be grounded better biblically, I feel as if they were really praying I would be more like them. After I found this out, I started praying that God wouldn’t answer there prayer. I came to the conclusion that instead of them praying I’m more like them and me praying God doesn’t answer their prayer, why don’t we start praying that we all become more like Jesus. Then our small differences won’t seem as big and we’ll get a much better taste of what it’ll be like in heaven when the global church Body worships together despite any differences!
Unfortunately, because of these things, you can make an argument, that there has been more evil done in the name of Christ than good throughout the history of the world. Many people have been hurt by the Church, Christians, or people proclaiming Christ. It’s as true on the mission field as it is the states. I felt as if most my time (just as here) was spent doing damage control. As Christians, and a global body, we have to be willing to stand up and admit our imperfections. We should go into every conversation with the mentality of “I’m sorry.” I’m sorry for the wrong that’s been done in the name of Christ, I’m sorry for the wrong I’ve done, I’m sorry for the ways you have been wrong. Please forgive me. While much wrong has been done in the name of Christ by humans, Christ has done no wrong. We’re not perfect, but our Saviour is. We’re not trying to get them to follow us, we’re trying to lead them to Him.
On behalf of my brother, the Chamber’s, the Banda’s, and myself, thank you for all the support throughout the years and specifically throughout this trip. It couldn’t have been done without many, many people taking the time to invest greatly into our lives.
Special thanks to (and I’m sure I’ll leave many out…please don’t be offended)-
· Heather Hills Baptist Church-the youth leaders (Matt and Jamie, Greg and Laura, Michael and Amber, Tom and Becky, Steve and Sandi, Tim and Lora), Sunday school/AWANA leaders (Mattick’s, Williams, Russell’s, Shulse’s, Sander’s, Lander’s, Gallagher’s, Spencer’s, Horan’s, Cutshaw’s, Kinney’s), family friends (Scott’s, Evans’,Wilson’s, McCarty’s), the leadership team, the current pastoral staff, Pastor Nathan and family, the deacons, Missions committee, and Oertel’s for working with us throughout the trip, and everyone else: for 14+ years of ministering to Caleb and I.
· Calvary Christian Fellowship-Pastor Toby and the whole congregation: for taking care of our family and giving Caleb and I the confidence to leave for Africa, for supporting us even though you barely knew us.
· Southeastern Baptist Church-The Hufford’s, Cooper’s, Youth Group, and the rest. Thank you for giving me a second church home while away at school.
· Southeastern Baptist Tabernacle- Pastor John and rest of the congregation: for all the support from the times we spent with you in our youth and sporadically throughout the years.
· Twin Lakes Camp and Conference Center –full time staff (Jon and Donna, Lyle and Sue, Dwayne and April, Nathan and Michelle, Jon and Krista, Walter and Linda) and all my friends and fellow campers, counselors, CIT’s, interns, and my CIT’s: for taking the time to provide first class training and investing so much in me, being willing to work through the great and bad, for all the friendships that will last into eternity, and for supporting me throughout the past 8 years.
· Athletes in Action-Debbie, Ed, Mike, Brian, and the rest of the low/high ropes people: for the great training and being able to use the AIA manual as a reference.
· Blackbaud-We don’t know most of you, but thank you. So many of you have supported us without ever meeting either Caleb or I.
· Cedarville University-
o All of my profs and faculty, but specifically Dr. Cook (for teaching me how to serve Christ as a man), Dr. Hutch (for being really about all sides of ministry), and Dr. Parrott (for listening to all my crazy ideas), and Eddie (for helping me learn all the rules of racquetball)
o Lawlor Ra’s, members of 30/32, all my boys, and the sisters: so much support…so much love…so many conversations about Jesus, missions, and what it means to serve. I couldn’t have gone without all you.
o Anthony-for always having my back no matter what
o Ragle’s-for always giving the unit and me a home away from home
o All my boy’s parents-always showing your support and encouragement, even though most of you I only ever got to meet once or twice, helping with the unit activities and mission trips. You have all raised some magnificent boys.
· All of our family: from ’88 through ’11 and beyond, you’ve all been faithful.
· Second families, friends, WC teachers and coaches, and anyone else I forgot…no matter how long you’ve known us, you’ve always made sure we’ve been taken care of and have pushed us to become the best
· For all those who help me better understand life, ministry, and missions pre and post trip: Nathan, Ginny, Jimmy, Bri, and Ashley
To everyone, thank you for your time…for all the love, prayer, and support. Without each and everyone one of you, this trip wouldn’t have been possible or seen the success that it did. And last but not least, thanks to our Savior…for loving us more than we could ever love Him…and for giving us the opportunity to share what He did for us, to people around the world.
Josh
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